Girls' Weekend at the Byrds

This weekend was EPIC and magical!! (those were our two words for the weekend) The girls got together at Amy and Josh's new house (Amy, Peggy, Melissa, Emma, and me) and had a fabulous female bonding experience!! The weekend kicked off with dinner (tortellini and spinach salad, and garlic bread) and a movie called Leap Year (a "must have" staple chick flick). I had already seen it, but Peggy and Melissa had not. The next day we were a little lazy and finally made our way out to the pool. It was a blazin hot day, but we had the pool all to ourselves!! Emma was fabulous as always in her adorable swim suit and matching hat and bag; Peggy was our DJ and kept us entertained with sing-a-long tunes; Melissa also kept us in stitches as she brought water toys and was just her funny, quick-witted self; Ames was busy chasing Emma around and being a good mommy; Josh was well-surrounded by smokin, hot females; and I was soakin in all of the good times and laughing out all my stresses of the week!

Josh and Emma 

After the pool, we went to see Eat, Pray, Love. I thoroughly enjoyed the movie. I had read the book about a year ago and it's a deeply insightful book. Movies are never as good as the books they are based on. However, this one was a movie I'd recommend to anyone. Better yet, read the book! Elizabeth Gilbert is a really wise woman who made a big impact during her world travels. 

We also had a great time at Trudy's and got seated right away, even though we had to park a mile away from the restaurant. I got to drive everyone around in my car and we rode with the top down after dinner. Poor Pegs and Ames got pretty beat up by the wind in the back seat (although Ames loved every minute of it and said that was exactly what she needed). Pegs on the other hand said she was hoping she could get a brush through her hair! 

I didn't want to leave because girl bonding time is truly a treasure. Even though we are all spread out and live pretty different lives, we still have so much in common and we still savor the moments that we can be together and just be goofy. Instead of making me sad that I was leaving and going back to my life in SA, it made me very grateful and appreciative of moments like these. Perhaps this is the only way we can really enjoy moments like these, if they are fleeting. After this weekend I truly feel lighter and happier and I thank God for bringing these awesome girls into my life - after all, life is more enjoyable and meaningful with friendship, love and laughter! 

Just us girls!

Emma and me

another shot of Emma and me

Pegs and Emma

headaches and heat

I've been fighting back a headache all day. This heat is the culprit, I think. Who would have guessed I would suffer migraines like my mom. Growing up I remember her taking naps with a cold washcloth on her head. "Mom has a headache so don't bother her," my dad would say. I never knew the pain that comes with headaches. And especially heat-related headaches - the ones I've been dealing with. It's the silent but deadly killer that starts out with a slight buzzing annoyance and then gets progressively worse. It's the type of pain that causes you to be nauseous and lose your appetite, and you find yourself squinting throughout the lifespan of the headache.

It's these dog days of summer I find myself tired, drained and unmotivated! I don't want to exercise or do anything but lie around the apartment and hang out with Luna. Just looking at her makes me smile, and smiling makes me feel better!

Just look at this precious face in the bluebonnets!

This picture was taken at Micah's lake house this past spring. I could hardly get her to sit still - she has way too much energy! 

This weekend I went to Corpus to spend a weekend with my family and we had a great time. Just when I think Luna can't be any funnier, she makes me laugh even harder. Todd was holding Roxy (our other white schnauzer) and saying "Oh, my sweet Roxy." He was cuddling her and Luna was having a fit! She was barking her head off. This wasn't your ordinary bark. It was a jealous bark where she would shake her head from right to left and act like it was causing her so much pain that she was not the center of attention. But you really had to be there! I can't adequately describe it.. Next time I will get it on camera! All I can say is that little girl keeps me in stitches!!! 

D.C. trip

I never got around to posting these pictures of my trip to D.C. So, here they are in all their glory!! But I had to post a picture of Luna as well. She just got a haircut yesterday and she just looks so darn cute!!! Most of these shots are taken around the area of Old Town Alexandria, which is basically a small community near D.C. These were taken around the 4th of July holiday. Micah and I had a lot of fun shopping, eating and goofing around! We watched the fire works and ate dinner at this amazing little place called Bilbo Baggins. If you are ever in Old Towne Alexandria, check out this place!!
The trip was a lot of fun, but it was hotter than Hades!! I actually passed out at one point in the trip from the all the heat! Good thing Micah was there to help me out. ;)
Another memorable moment was seeing the Holocaust museum. There are no words powerful enough to describe my feelings about it. This is also a "must see" attraction for tourists, and the best part about all those museums is that they are free!!! You can't beat that!!

Check out this video of my most beautiful creation! She is one funny dog! Her name is Luna Bella De La Joya Allen, but I like to call her Looney Tooney at times. Ever since I got her she loves to turn circles; even when she was a puppy. I believe God created her just for me. Here is a small synopsis of the story of how I got my Luna.

Let's backtrack to the time I was dating this guy. I thought he was a good guy. In the end he turned out to be "not so good, nor not so nice." This was one of those lessons I had to learn through pain and heartbreak. God was telling me all along that his guy was not the guy for me. At first everything was great with this guy. He was a firefighter in the Air Force. He was a gentleman.

Fast forward a few months and we started getting serious. I went on a road trip with him to meet his parents, and they were sweet and everything seemed to be happening so quick. I was starting to think I was in love with this guy. He knew all the right words to say and I fell for those words, those empty, meaningless words.

We hit a huge bump in our relationship when only after almost 4 months of dating, he got called to Iraq for 3 months. Well, we decided it would be a good test of our relationship and we were both comitted to making it work. We even talked about getting engaged when he got back.

After a few weeks I started noticing him changing. He sounded so cold on the phone and so distant. But when I asked him what was wrong, he wouldn't tell me and when he did say something it was always, "I'm fighting a war here, why would you ask me what's wrong?" It was harsh and condescending. I felt like I was losing him, fast. This when on a point where I just had to do something to find out what was wrong and do anything I could to save our relationship.

Before he left, his mom and I got along great and told me that if I ever needed anything to call her. She said she knew how hard it would be to be without him, but that everything would work out just fine. So, I took her up on her offer and I explained to her that I felt like I was losing him. I asked her what she thought I should do for him. Did she know if I did something wrong? He didn't act like he loved me anymore.. So, I was desperate.

I never got a response from her. Instead, I got a call from him. He yelled at me and asked me who I thought I was contacting HIS parents. "Don't you know their son is fighting a war in one of the most dangerous places in the world.?" Why would you dare worry them with our relationship." You crossed the line big time, Summer. I can never forgive you for this, EVER.

WOW - I had no words because I was so shocked that this guy I thought I loved would treat me like some kind of criminal. I was a bad person and I had committed an unforgivable sin because I contacted his mom(and all because she reached out to me first). Hmmm... what a bad, bad person I was. How could I be so selfish!

I never heard from him again, until I noticed (through facebook) he was in a relationship. Turns out he met a girl up there and they were going out the whole time he was over there. I know they are married now and have a child, but all I can say is "Thank you Lord," It could have been me. You give us your best at what we thought was better.

Well, I guess you're asking yourself how Luna fits into the story. Before this guy left for Iraq we talked about getting a dog together. Or, he said he wanted to get me a dog so I wouldn't meet anyone while he was gone. We decided to name this dog (I wanted a boy dog) Fuego. The reason is because Fuego means fire in Spanish and well, I love spanish and 2.) because he was a firefighter.

When I saw the dog that my cousin Robin found for me, he was a very skiddish dog. We didn't bond at all. He wouldn't even come to me. So, as hard as it was I walked away from this dog and thought that it wasn't meant to be. That same trip, my cousin Savannah found an ad in the paper advertising dogs for sale. She called the ad and it was right down the street from where I was staying with my grandma for the weekend. The lady who answered said she had 2 schnauzers, (the type of dog I was looking for) and to come and see if I liked them.

When I got there, this white female schnauzer came right up to me and put her paws all over my face and licked me. I knew she was the one for me! It was love at first sight!!! When I went to my car to get my checkbook, she even cried for me. It was like she was waiting for me too!!

Sometimes I look back on that moment and I cry and cry and cry because I'm so happy. I'm so happy that God gave me exactly what he knew I needed - exactly what was best for me. He saved me from a bad relationship; he didn't want me in that relationship and he didn't want me to have a boy dog named Fuego. I wanted a boy dog; He gave me a female.

She was the opposite of what I thought I wanted. But once I saw her and spent time with her, I knew that God wanted her for me and she was a perfect, perfect gift from heaven!!! She was an example of God's faithfulness, goodness and sovereignty. She has such a personality.

She likes to bark really loud; she is hyper and just as sweet as pie! Two peas in a pod we are!! Sometimes when I have bad days and cry, she crawls up on my chest and just rests her sweet little face on my neck. She really hates when I cry. It's awesome how she won't leave my side. In conclusion, wait for God's best. It is worth it!!!!